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Join “Team Bud” at Family Matters Walk-A-Thon, Saturday morning, May 21st

Posted by Mike G on May 12, 2011

Around a year ago, after completing my first year on the Board of Family Matters, the organization’s founder, Executive Director, Kim DeLong, pulled me aside after a Board meeting, making a request.

“Mike. There is a young man who has been in our program for over ten years. His name is Thomas Sanders, but we all know him as “Bud.” He’s a fabulous 18 year old – so hard working and he is so dependable.  He cares so much. He would really benefit if someone like you could be a friend and a mentor for him.”

Those of you familiar with Kim know that her requests cannot easily go unmet (if Kim wasn’t a minister, I’d swear that she has ‘Jewish mother’ blood in her!). Therefore, slowly, over the course of the past year, during which time Bud was actually awarded a seat on the Family Matter’s Board, I have been a friend and a mentor for Bud.

I’ve taken him to a White Sox game; my son and his buddy took Bud for an overnight trip to Michigan; I convinced one of my maintenance guys to offer Bud part time work last summer, a job requiring Bud to travel ninety minutes using two trains; an opportunity that Bud enthusiastically embraced, even though his day’s wages often barely met the cost of his travels.

A month or so ago, Bud called me and he asked if we could meet. He sounded a bit anguished.  The next day we met at a restaurant, to talk.

Already, I was wondering what was on Bud’s mind. Was it problems with school? Family problems? Who knows? Given the array of challenges that a 19 year old might have growing up near Paulina and Jonquil, it could be anything.

“Mike,” he said. “Its about Family Matters.”

I looked at him wondering what it could be.

“At last week’s Board meeting everyone spoke about the mission of Family Matters. The mission statement that the Board proposed is way too long and it doesn’t really explain what Family Matters is all about.”

I continued to look at him, so impressed that he cared so much.

“They won’t use the word “safe” when describing what Family Matters is. But “safe” is exactly what Family Matters has been for me since I started going there over ten years ago. It’s been a “safe place” for me to go after school.

“Also, they don’t use the words “North of Howard” in the statement. I don’t understand why not? Family Matters serves those of us who live here, providing a safe environment where we can hang out, get tutoring and do other stuff after school.

“I don’t know why we need a full paragraph to explain our Mission Statement. I can do it in two sentences.”

I asked Bud to do it, and he did - succinctly, and from the heart.

I then asked Bud if I could videotape him saying the same thing.

A couple of weeks later he came over to my office, and I shot the attached video of Bud, explaining why Family Matters is important to him.

Why all of this talk about Family Matters?

On Saturday morning, May 21st, Family Matters is having their big fundraiser of the year – our 22nd annual Walk-A-Thon.

This year’s Walk promises to be a true neighborhood event – one that everyone should try to attend.

A beautiful Spring Saturday – a five mile walk along the lakefront, followed by a community picnic.

Minimum cost is $20 per walker, but, given that this is a fundraiser, we encourage all walkers to get a few people to sponsor them and generate a few more dollars.

I can assure you that Family Matters devotes this money to good use: as Bud would say, helping create a safe environment for local children and their families – helping these kids develop strategies that will help them be successes in life.

In other words, funds raised will impact people who can become capable and caring members of the community – like Bud.

Bud and I have decided to create a special team, called “Team Bud.” Our slogan is “Bud Up.”

Be a part of “Team Bud.” Simply send me an email at “” letting me know if you plan on walking, or tell me that you would simply like to contribute and tell me how much. (Or, go on line at and make a contribution!)

Preferably, you’ll come and walk. Meet some nice people. Be a part of the community. Have fun. Be part of a special community celebration.

Hope to see you then.

Bud Up!

Family Matters 22nd Annual Walk-A-Thon
Date:  Saturday, May 21, 2011
Registration: 9:00 – 9:45 a.m.
Walk: 10:00 a.m.
Begins at: Gale Academy, 1631 W. Jonquil Chicago • located one block south of Family Matters and one block east of the Howard Street el stop (corner of Marshfield Avenue and Jonquil Terrace).
Concludes at: Willye B. White Park •  A picnic will be waiting.

(Leave a Comment below if you want to offer your own impressions about Family Matters, or to announce your intention of joining “Team Bud.”)

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Mike G's photoMike Glasser

Mike has a long term relationship with Rogers Park, having lived here at various times in his life, most recently returning to the neighborhood in August, 2009. While living here as a third year law student, he remembers drunken nights at Biddy Mulligan’s and hosting a couple of memorable parties that he, hypocritically, now forbids his own tenants from having. Years later, after completing his stint as a lawyer, Mike started investing in apartment buildings in Rogers Park (and elsewhere), and soon after, did what many newly divorced real estate investors do: he moved into one of his buildings. In 1992 Mike was one of the founding members of the Rogers Park Builders Group, an organization that he eventually headed for six years, until yielding those reigns three years ago. Around a decade ago, on a whim, he reserved the web site “,” which he has been developing ever since, and which co-hosts RP BizArts networking events. Mike is the proud father of three wonderful children, Amy, Mitch and Ella.

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